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Remembering Bobby Rhine

Bobby Rhine

There's a lot of posts out there to remember Bobby that are extremely well written and touching. I will link to as many of them as I can find tomorrow. 

I don't really know what to write. Generally I'm never at a loss for words, but I've never had to deal with something like this before. Excuse my rambling, selfish post. 

BR19 as a player was exactly what you would want in a fan favorite. He never gave an inch on the field, taking on guys that were bigger than him and coming out the other side. At one point or another in his career his primary role on the field was to score goals, create goals and stop goals. There wasn't one particular thing Bobby was stellar at, it's just that he would try much harder than you would because he had to. It wasn't until after his on-field career ended, however, that we really got to see the Bobby Rhine that was so great. 

While it wasn't bad watching Rhine in practice, I have to say I much preferred chatting with him rather than watching him play. Whenever I could make it out there, I always hoped Bobby would come out of the office because I loved telling him what was up with my life. Sure, we would talk about the team, but I really was more excited to tell him about the progress of my upcoming marriage(my wife is a founding member of the original Bobby Rhine fan club known as "The Posse") or whatever what going on with my budding career. He was someone I wanted to make proud. 

Selfishly, it pains me deeply to not be able to see Bobby rise to the top of the American soccer broadcasting peak waiving the flag of FC Dallas like I know he was destined to do and it pains me deeply to not have Bobby see where I take my career and my family though I know he will be watching from heaven. I hurt for his wife Bevan who has always been so genuine to Amy and I hurt for his sons who will be forced to watch dad play soccer in old videos rather than trying to score on him in the back yard. 

It makes me so sad that I won't be able to raise a beer with him after Dallas finally gets that first championship. 

Bobby Rhine truly was Mr. FC Dallas and his loss is one that cuts deep into anyone with a vested interest in this team. I don't think I'm close to fully comprehending that I will never see him again after a game. 

He will be missed dearly.  

An impromptu memorial has been set up in front of his poster on the southwest corner of Pizza Hut Park. It will be there for days and is lit up at night. If you can at all make it out there, please stop by. 

 

 

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Thank you, Daniel

I know you and Amy forged a nice relationship with the Rhine family, so this must be tough on both of you. I was never a huge fan of Rhine as a player, but as a person he was always top notch…..which I guess is the way it should be.

I can’t imagine what Bevan is going through right now. As a parent of young children myself (Bobby and I are nearly the same age), all I can think of are his boys having to grow up without their Dad. It hurts……it pains me considerably. I know this kind of thing happens way too often in the world, but rarely does it hit so close to home.

by texg8r on Sep 7, 2011 7:54 AM CDT reply actions  

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Just reminds us all to not take tomorrow for granted.

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-SB Nation Dallas/Ft. Worth-
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by Daniel Robertson on Sep 7, 2011 1:18 PM CDT up reply actions  

Love

I’m Orange (Dynamo) to the core but this goes beyond rivalries and speaks more to core of our humanity. Rhine may not have been an amazing person but that didn’t matter: he was a great person. I don’t know you but I know that you’re passionate about soccer, enough to start this blog here…I live over at Dynamo Theory and I know how its impacted Zach, who runs the site, so I know as someone else who actually knew Bobby not as a name but as a friend it hits in ways most of us don’t know. All we can say is that be there for the family, they’ll need the love and support. And of course, thoughts and prayers to you and your family as you grieve for him. But Bobby touched you by his passion for football and life, and I know that the flame in you will burn all the brighter now because of him. That’s part of the legacy he leaves behind for you to continue here and elsewhere.

Take care and our thoughts and prayers here in Houston are with you all and the FC Dallas family.

by Michael_D on Sep 7, 2011 10:05 AM CDT reply actions  

Thank you

The thoughts are very appreciated.

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-SB Nation Dallas/Ft. Worth-
-FC Dallas-

by Daniel Robertson on Sep 7, 2011 1:17 PM CDT up reply actions  

An idea I came up with last night,

and I am not certain how connected you are with the front office but it’s something I think would be a fitting tribute.

See for me, I didn’t start rooting for FCD until ’09 when a friend of mine invited me to see FCD play Houston in Houston with the Inferno trip down there. So I only really know of Bobby the commentator. I think for the next telecast, other than a comment about the lineup, the booth should be silent and the game played without any commentary. I think we would all just imagine his voice and excitement and remember what he brought us.

lol I guess it’s just an idea, maybe one that wont see any steam but for some reason I feel the power behind that would be like nothing else.

RIP Bobby and seeyoulaterade

A man from Dallas who bleeds red, not silver and blue.

by Sir Whirly on Sep 7, 2011 10:40 AM CDT reply actions  

Maybe not the whole game....

….maybe for the number of minutes corresponding to his jersey number (can’t remember what that was).

by texg8r on Sep 7, 2011 11:15 AM CDT up reply actions  

He wore #19...

…just watched the tribute video that MLS made for him.

So…..maybe no commentary for the first 19 minutes of the game…..or maybe silence for the 19th minute of every game for the rest of the season.

by texg8r on Sep 7, 2011 11:25 AM CDT up reply actions  

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I’m sure we’ll figure out something. I like either 19th minute or 19 minutes of silence…or even first 18 minutes of silence and then clapping for the 19th minute.

www.bigdsoccer.com
-SB Nation Dallas/Ft. Worth-
-FC Dallas-

by Daniel Robertson on Sep 7, 2011 1:19 PM CDT up reply actions  

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